The Settlement
How men repay their debt to women
You know why I resort to insulting men?
Because men don’t listen to women. Men don’t respect women.
They abuse us.
So I have to speak the language of abuse to get their attention.*
Take me, for instance—
I’m awake to my true nature as source, a clinical psychologist, a doctor, a prolific writer-creator, a meditation teacher, a podcaster, and a master healer.
I have a taxonomy of 6 human subspecies. I created an open-source directory of new earth creators—brilliant people engaged in share economies. I gave away everything I gnow (as in gnosis; I even created new words) at no cost—hundreds of hours of material.
I care about everyone; I have 30 years of experience in health care. I’ve worked with every ‘demographic’ of person—from houseless folx to CEOs, from integrative health to community mental health.
I’m even funny. And not a bad dancer.
I have an incredible roster of new earth architects on my podcast. Every person, a genius. Every episode, gold. Every healer is at the top of their game.
But men don’t care. They only care if they can fuck me (or use me in some way).
I’ll tell you right now, men—
You can’t.
Because you repulse me.
Your disrespect is repulsive. You’ve made yourselves into repulsive beings.
And you know it.
You know you’ve done us wrong.
You know you owe women a debt.
You know you’ve taken and taken and taken from us.
You’ve disrespected the mother, the feminine in us and in yourselves.
And your bill is due.
It’s time to reset, to settle the accounts.
Here’s what you need to do—
Stop everything.
Stop working.
Stop fighting.
Stop taking.
Stop talking.
And listen to women. For as long as it takes.
We’ll tell you what we need and want from you.
Then you provide it.
That’s it.
(Women, I'd better hear you dreaming big. Me? I want the world.)
Start with the women in your life right now.
Your partners, daughters, mothers, sisters, and friends.
Whatever they want, provide it for them.
Then listen to us at the collective level.
Give women like me—the new earth designers—your platform, your microphone.
Give us your hands, your skills, your ‘labor.’
Give us your resources—your money and your property.
(Soon, there will be no money or property, but we’ll utilize it temporarily)
Host a local or global women’s summit.
Fly us around the world.
Simply—
Center us.
Put us first.
Women and children first, remember?
It’s time to remember your true purpose, men—
To care for women & children.
We’re right here, ready to receive your offers and remember the world back into paradise, together.
We can’t wait to show you how beautiful it is, how beautiful you are.
But you need to remember our beauty first.
With love,
J’ana
*I tagged Charles Eisenstein at least half a dozen times. I DM’d him, commented on his posts; it was only when I challenged him to a fight and called him a dingbat that he responded.
Thank you. It hasn’t mattered to men when women spoke softly, pleaded, or tried to reason on the violence of patriarchy but the minute we express rage at the ongoing spiral of destruction of this earth and the devaluation of the lives of women and children, we are told that’s not how to usher change. THAT violence only brings more violence to us we are told; the domestic abuse psychological jedi mind trick.
The same phenomena happens when black and brown people bring attention to patriarchal supremacist systems. Ya kya win!! One piece of gaslighting after the next that implies rage is only allowed, only natural to white men.
When I was young girl I remembered hearing about Amazon women and children who lived in community with one another, no men allowed. The women were warrior women who defended their communities from male invasion. We could use some of that energy to bring in change for women and children while men continue their apocalyptic homoerotic ambitions to conquer and control. Convincing men that giving up power will assure the wellbeing of ALL of us is like convincing white people we will ALL gain by letting go of their manufactured hierarchy.
Yonity it is!